I don’t know if it’s the variety of situations, places, people, looks, sexy outfits, or the lack of mundane chores, or responsibilities but this just never gets old. I was telling a friend that she’s in the best part of a relationship, the fun exploring, learning and getting to know each other part of a new love. But honestly I still feel that, maybe even more than ever. I not only feel that heart pounding love but all of passion you’ve shared, the anticipation, the desire to please them on top of the variety makes it constantly new and intensely meaningful every time.
It not only doesn’t get old, but it keeps getting better and better every day. At first I laughed when Susan said that and thought to myself it doesn’t get any better than this. Then the next few times she said that, I thought well, ok but this time it can’t get any better. Then I thought OMG, how could it ever get any better. At this point, I give up. It’s better than anything ever, but I’m resigned to it just continuing to get better and better.
Maybe it’s the people I know. In fact I’m sure that’s got to be a big part of it. I’m so amazingly blessed it’s not funny. Your actual mileage may vary! But I can say this, it CAN keep getting better and better if you both work at it. I also want to say that although this is just my personal experience, not a study at all, but aside from the endings which can vary, the middle exciting loving part of every relationship seems to be better than the middle part of the last one. None of these things are easy to explain, but trust me. If you stick with it, open up and love with all your heart, it doesn’t get old and at least in some cases, certainly seems to keep getting better and better!
I always wonder how can people say they’re bored in here. It’s like saying you’re bored in Adult Disneyland. It’s the most unboring place in the world and can be anything you want it to be. I think maybe they just don’t know how to use it.
First of all never say you’re bored. It makes you sound boring. I made a great list of IMVU activities you can go do. There are is an almost endless variety of fun toys and things to do and rooms to explore. One tip, if you’re looking for interesting IMVU rooms look for ones with four stars. Pick rooms that you have an appropriate costume for but just get out there and wander around.
Make a crazy and exciting costume. There are studies that show when you smile you feel happier and the IMVU corollary is, when you look exciting you feel more exciting. Make yourself someone that someone exciting would want to hangout with. If you’re bored you’ll attract other boring people. If you’re exciting you’ll attract other exciting people.
A lot of guys seem to say they’re bored when they mean horny. Maybe they think saying they’re horny will sound bad. I actually think saying you’re bored makes you sound worse than saying you’re bored. I’d rather talk to a horny guy than a bored guy.
I also think people that are really bored just don’t know what they want to do, because you really do find what you look for here more than anywhere else. So look around at all the different things here (and there’s a ton of exciting themes in here) and pick something. You can always change, it’s not like you’re stuck with just one thing. Make a different costume, a story and maybe a fun room, and go out and meet other people. This place is addictingly fun and you can be tired or have an off or quiet day but its never ever boring!