Everyone is having more fun than me

imvu snuggling loveThere was a stabbing and shooting spree recently in Santa Barbara California, where the perpetrator blamed everyone else having more fun (and sex) than him and it made me think about IMVU. In some ways I wish he had gone on here, but even here I think we all feel kind of like this sometimes, like everyone else is having way more fun than me. We compare our down points to other people’s high points and don’t see the parts in between. We don’t see how real life, timing and technical issues gets in the way for other people too.

You probably look at my website and my pictures and assume that it’s ALWAYS like that. I don’t show pictures or talk about how life gets in the way sometimes, but it does. I don’t know when someone is coming home so I don’t do much and then kick myself afterwards when they’re gone all afternoon.

Someone wrote a comment today that it’s all just sex! Sometimes I wish that were true. I katy and ally so cute they're not competitive or anythingcan’t tell you how many times I’ve declined invites saying I’m already talking to someone and they probably assume that it’s something sexy, and it’s not.

At the same time though the UP times wouldn’t be as high up if we didn’t have “in between” things and times. The realness of the relationships also requires a lot of other types of connecting but that makes the passion even more powerful. Don’t seek out drama and issues but don’t avoid them either. Share all of the ups and downs and it will be even more exciting in the end.

Don’t worry, you’re not the only one that sometimes doesn’t end up getting all the excitement you were hoping for. It happens sometimes to all of us, and you have to be able to roll with it a little bit. Sometimes people have to leave quickly or have technical issues and you can’t get too frustrated at it. Murphy’s Law, and Life both happen in here too.

3 responses

  1. I laughed and included the super cute picture of Katy and Ally because they’re super competitive in a cute way and it seemed to fit as much as anything and of course just because they’re both super adorable!

    May 29, 2014 at 8:25 pm

  2. there has been a recent study of this, psychologists call it FOMO (fear of missing out) and I admit, I have fomo bad. especially because of social media, we see glimpses of all the fun our friends are having, and because the way social media works, we only see the best bits, so people tend to feel like they’re always missing out… it is good to remember old sayings, like the grass is always greener…

    and yes, that’s an awesome outfit, thanks twis and sis

    – imvu scientist

    May 29, 2014 at 11:04 pm

    • Great point. Are we still not allowed to have any fun when you’re away??

      May 30, 2014 at 12:57 am

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