How to be better at IMVU Sex

telling you the secret
secret2The first most important thing is the attitude of wanting and trying to please your partner. When you put that first everything else tends to work out. The ones that don’t seem to be trying are the ones I remove or avoid. And even people that aren’t that great or are just ok can get better if they’re really trying and want to please the other person.

The second most important thing to do to be better at passion is to open up and really let your heart flow. You have to put yourself into your AVI and learn to feel and express even the details as much as possible. Use lots of adjectives and paint a vivid word picture of every little detail and action.

secret3Sexiness comes from your mind and the words you use are more important in great passion then sexy poses, triggers or voice boxes or anything else. But that doesn’t mean that the other things don’t help or add to it. So set up and use sexy poses and dress sexy and use sexy music or sounds appropriately. Sex and great love here doesn’t come from those things but doing all of the smaller pieces right definitely adds to the quality and excitement.

secret4There are a few other things you can do that can help you to do a better job that I don’t tell most people about. The best secret trick is to use Dragon Naturally Speaking or any voice program that allows you to talk instead of having to type. I don’t do this during regular chats, but in passion I like to be able to have my hands free so I can enjoy it and still do a good job making it fun and sexy for my partner.

secret5I also use a couple other tricks that I don’t talk about as much. I use a program that helps in typing things, kind of like an auto correct. This allows you to expand a couple of letters into phrases or even whole sentences. I got a gaming keyboard that has a programmable macro keys. I even got a foot pedal so I can just tap the pedal instead of having to use the keyboard for a couple things.

I made a database of all of the best lines I used or could find. A little bit of preparation can help make it very powerful and a lot easier. Some of the macro programs can automate a lot of it. I don’t find that I use those type of macros or the prepared lines as much once I got good with Dragon, because I’m with the same people fairly frequently and I don’t want them to feel any of it is canned or less than less sincere. The point though is that you should try to find a few ways to shortcut and make it easier to do a good job.

secret6One of the things that I do which not everybody does is music. If you search a little bit and work at it you can put together some very hot sexy IMVU music mixes that will add to the feeling of passion.

Make or even find a couple IMVU rooms that have fun themes and use them with some friends. A generic looking room, or even worse the default room is kind of a turn off. But a very sexy room that’s different and exciting will definitely make someone want to come back again and so will real powerful love! Follow up afterwards with a note or two, to stay on their mind, and don’t sound like you’re gonna come track them down, but let them know if you appreciate it.

7 responses

  1. Always the best info and advice one can find about IMVU :) You’re making me jealous lol.

    May 8, 2014 at 4:06 am

    • Making you jealous? Nooo trying to make people BETTER!! :)

      May 8, 2014 at 1:38 pm

  2. Of course, I was just kidding lol. I think it’s VERY important that people *learn to use IMVU*… because we all know how those who don’t care about others act. And such people add to the somewhat bad image IMVU seems to have. We can make a difference :)))

    May 9, 2014 at 11:21 am

    • IMVU is hard to understand, and it’s so flexible so it’s understandable that it has such a mixed or sorted image. And the people that use it don’t advertise that they use it in real life because that would take away from the freedom you have from anonymity here. This point could and probably should be a separate post.

      May 9, 2014 at 2:12 pm

  3. k

    This is a great post. I’m male, and have been on IMVU for 3 yrs now, and it’s really hard finding anyone to cyber well. By that I mean finding someone with the verbal skills to carry it off, so to speak. I met someone today, and it was so much fun, and sooo hot – I hope we can continue, we cuddled after, and then she had to leave for sleep. I let her go easily, but letting her know how much I appreciated her time and the intimacy we shared. I hope more people read these posts – so right on!

    October 22, 2014 at 3:57 am

    • Awesome K! It’s great when you connect and share that passion and Love! The talking and even the before and after is important. Sometimes I admit life gets in the way but it’s so beautiful when it clicks.

      October 22, 2014 at 3:55 pm

  4. LilyHart IMVU

    This is very nice and I love that you put ur time into telling us how to be better at stuff in IMVU! and if you would like to be in one of my videos for an interview that would be very appreticated! YT: Olivia Paquette
    Thx!!!!!! cx

    August 11, 2016 at 12:55 pm

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