Poly-Amorism in IMVU

love in imvuPoly-Amorism means loving many. In our real lives everything works better and last longer and goes smoother when you have just one great love. But wait, that’s not true either. We all have lots of relationships and people that love us and we love in real life too. Some of them are mothers and sisters and relatives, coworkers or friends from church or your neighborhood… the list goes on. The key thing that you have to realize is that since you’re not actually having physical contact the consequences and seriousness of it aren’t the same in here and that’s part of the environment here more so than real life.

This is one of the major differences though with IMVU. First of all you don’t have the physical downside of multiple relationships. In real life it creates a health hazard and puts everyone at risk not to mention pregnancy, but here that isn’t a factor. Secondly, it’s geared towards anonymity and privacy so it’s very easy to see someone privately and confidentially, and to meet sexy strangers very easily too.

Those are both some of the reasons why multiple relationships here is not bad, but that doesn’t explain exactly why it’s so good and so prevalent here either. I think the very nature of this place is that it’s ultimately not real and isn’t designed to be a lifetime situation. It’s kind of like living in match.com or going to an adult Disney World and limiting yourself to just one ride.

Unlike real life where the goal is usually to build a long term if not lifetime relationship and commitment, in here people come here for the journey or for the moment, to feel that once in a life time magical passion of new love over and over again. This is their fantasy and many people’s idea of a fantasy is not necessarily a single monogamous thing. Don’t get me wrong, some people definitely do that but given different schedules and life situations, unlike real life, monogamy seems to go against the grain of IMVU.

It’s not you, and it’s important to realize that your actions here do not translate into real life attitudes. Enjoy the magic of IMVU and enjoy the powerful passion that seems to fill this fantasy world.

7 responses

  1. lol i gotta say all your posts are really good and explain everything with details and so on and its interesting to watch :3 maybe i can add chu on imvu?

    March 11, 2014 at 4:50 am

    • Sure I love meeting people from the website! Send me a note so I know you were from the website and invite me, Kaitlyn.

      March 11, 2014 at 12:03 pm

      • i wish but i cant add you on imvu or find you, cuz i can only search for people of the age 13-17 and idk how to change that, but if you would like to add me i dont mind ^-^ Guest_xXxHerSexyBeast_xXx id love to chat with you and talk about all kinds of different stuff ^-^

        March 11, 2014 at 2:36 pm

      • Ohhh I’m so sorry. I really have to stay more with adults. I wear mostly AP clothes and tend to behave more adult and have a daughter in that range so I worry plenty. I’m sorry.

        March 11, 2014 at 10:32 pm

      • hersexybeast

        ahem ahem… im 16… but fine its a waste tho but whatever you wish -_-

        March 12, 2014 at 2:09 am

      • No it’s not a matter of it being a waste of time. That wasn’t what I said at all. But the nature of a good deal of the discussion in here falls into the adult arena. And part of taking care of children is respecting their childhood and giving them a chance to grow up. There are way to many things pushing the younger generation to grow up too fast as it is. And most of IMVU just isn’t appropriate for children. That’s not just my opinion. It’s the way it is. It’s not about or against you personally. Please don’t take it that way. I just wouldn’t want adults dressing and talking like I do to my 16 (almost 17) year old daughter. It’s scary enough that she just got her license, but she’s super responsible and an amazing person. And I know there’s a lot of wonderful supportive people and things in here for sure too. You’ll have plenty of time later on to be whoever and whatever you want to be. So I say this in the most loving way possible, as I hope someone else would say to my daughter, Don’t rush it, enjoy it. And please be careful because the people in here that don’t respect that are the ones you really have to worry about, and there are some of them too.

        March 12, 2014 at 6:31 pm

  2. hersexybeast

    just everything you explain even in little details is so good and i read almost all your posts for 1 night but, since ive got school i dont have much time but i would like to add you on imvu and maybe chat from time to time

    March 11, 2014 at 4:53 am

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