Watching can be just as fun
In IMVU Since no one is technically having any actual physical contact, watching can be just as good as doing anything. But the trick is that you have to feel connected and really know the people, to feel a part of it and to empathize with them.
Watching random people is fun to some degree and you can learn little things from them. But just like passion is more powerful with people you feel connected to, watching is also more powerful with people you are connected to.
Empathy is also an important thing. Empathy is the ability to relate and put yourself in the other person’s shoes. To do that you have to know the other person well and be able to relate and understand how they think. That way you’ll be able to understand and relate to what they feel too.
Listening is also easier in some respects. It takes the pressure off of you having to respond and narrate and write what you’re doing or thinking. I do like to talk and describe something sexy, because it makes me feel more. But when you are watching, you just don’t have to write or type anything. You can just think it and enjoy the show.
One other less obvious thing, that makes it more fun to watch, is an element of control. If you are able to push the person you’re watching and tell them what you want them to do, it makes it even more exciting even if you are just watching. That plus a little bit of whispering here or there can make it very sexy wonderful and fun to watch!