Real-life is first but…

Fairy Love in IMVUJust because we always say real life first, that doesn’t mean that this can’t be just as good or better in some ways. That is a difficult thing to admit sometimes but it is true.

Fifty shades of Gray in IMVUI have a great life, and love my family and my husband tremendously. I try hard to my real life first, all the time. We went to a farm and got pumpkins rode a horse and did the hay maze. Kids are good and make you stay focused to some degree. This just fills in in between and seems to be good for me at giving me a little bit of the fun that real life sometimes lacks.

some people make imvu so specialI don’t want to talk to much about my real-life sex life on here because I don’t know who will eventually read it. But just because real life comes first, that doesn’t mean that the passion here is any less real or intense. Another way to say it is that, just because real life comes first, doesn’t mean that this is any less important to me.

It didn’t start out this way of course, but it does grow on you. This isn’t addictive because it’s painful. I think some people have problems because its so good and so real. People also run into problems letting or wanting it to be more than just virtual. sexy imvu harem girls

It’s not hard to believe I guess that a fantasy could be fun or addictive. It can be literally anything you want, and you do have to keep real life first but this can be absolutely amazing and so much fun!

3 responses

  1. collettelilac

    Sometimes I feel like an avatar, sometimes I don’t! lol
    I must confess that there have been times when I am doing things like you were at the pumpkin farm (sounds awesome by the way) and having a wonderful time. Then there will be a slow moment and I find myself daydreaming about someone here in imvu! I think maybe my family see’s my eyes go out of focus, and then I hear………Honey? Are you there? Honey? :) Uh Oh, Mom is in her daydream land again! lol
    Well, the people you meet here must be real people, unless computers have now attained consciousness? The relationships are real also cause I certainly hope I have not fallen in love with someones rogue mac they forgot to turn off? :) So, if someone says that the girlfriend you met on the internet is not real, then they must believe that computers have gotten this far advanced? Hmmmm….so the people in real, are more real then the people in imvu? I am so confused at times. This whole “real” thing does intrigue me though. Thanks for the post…..or am I thanking a forgotten laptop plugged in somewhere……..?

    October 27, 2013 at 4:29 pm

  2. You’re thanking a real person and a real friend. It does get blurry and confusing at times. I think you just have to learn to listen to your heart. Even if you were just a computer program that I was missing and thinking about, I feel so good and happy with you I kind of don’t care. it’s my secret happiness secret. This is such a strange new world that has to rules or clear answers to some things. But you make mine beautiful, even when it’s just hearing about your day. I wish that everyone could make a friend here as great as you!

    November 1, 2013 at 2:57 pm

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