Hold them with love

imvu love and commitmentYou’re never more than a click or two away from another room or other friends in here. So the only way to hold onto anyone here is to love them more than anyone else. You can get promises and even chains and cages (which can be kind of fun, by the way) but the freedom and ease of meeting people in here makes it impossible to hold onto anyone that doesn’t want to be held. So the trick is to make them WANT to be held.
holding my love
So the question becomes what would make them want to stay. In real life stay together because they don’t have many choices, because of kids, because of the expense of leaving or breaking up, because of the stigma of divorce, or because of their physical needs. Obviously none of these things are true in here. So how do you hold onto people who are constantly seeing supermodels wanting to spend time with them?

I think there’s only one thing strong enough to hold, really hold someone here and that’s LOVE! Emotions in here can be very intense (VERY intense) and none is stronger than Love. The only way you can keep anyone in here is to love them with all your heart and in every way. I’ve written posts about how to make someone feel loved and I’m sure you can figure out a few things of your own too.

3 responses

  1. yea, on imvu its just so easy/common to resort to games and jealousy and secrets and yes, love is better (But maybe takes more work and more selflessness but worth it).. like the song said.. love’s the only thing that there’s just.. too little of

    July 4, 2013 at 1:23 pm

    • I don’t think secrets or games really hold people, at least not for long.

      July 4, 2013 at 2:26 pm

  2. Pingback: Without love I am nothing… | Kaitlyn's IMVU Tips

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