It’s all fun and games till someone pokes an eye out

It does get complicatedThe people you love the most can also hurt you the most. Loving means opening up and letting someone in to your heart. That feeling that you can’t get close enough is great but it also means that person has the ability to hurt even the strongest person very deeply too. It’s amazing how big and damaging even something small can turn into, and months and months of love and being there for someone goes out the window.

I was going to write about what to do when you get hurt, but honestly I guess I’m not very good at that. I’m trying to focus on my family and work and I shut off email forwarding of messages so I can just hide. There’s nothing urgent in there that can’t wait until I feel better in here. I have to cut back my time in IMVU anyway so I’ll just use this as a vacation from non-reality. Don’t write me or worry.

5 responses

  1. 1Suzilyn

    To ask a loved one not to worry is absurd..Of course they worry..Spending months and months building something worth sharing..Every relationship has bumps, but walking away and not communicating doesn’t help..especially putting it up in public…I’m humbly requesting you return as soon as possible..Your presence here is sorely missed by not just me..but everyone you touch with your heart…This sends ripples thruout ALL of IMVU…I pray you return very soon….I’m missing you bigtime ….This isnt a silly game on here…this is hearts that are affected….YOU ARE TRULY LOVED….Wendy and I are planning going door to door looking for you if you dont return soon..Its been a terrible day of worry…even though I’m not supposed to worry…I’m saying this in a public forum…I’m committed to our relationship and need you back..Love always, Susan

    January 24, 2013 at 7:39 pm

  2. quidlyn

    that’s such the perfect photo. i love you. so so much.

    January 24, 2013 at 8:30 pm

  3. 1Suzilyn

    “People are often unreasonable and self-centered. Forgive them anyway.
    If you are kind, people may accuse you of ulterior motives. Be kind anyway.
    If you are honest, people may cheat you. Be honest anyway.
    If you find happiness, people may be jealous. Be happy anyway.
    The good you do today may be forgotten tomorrow. Do good anyway.
    Give the world the best you have and it may never be enough. Give your best anyway.
    For you see, in the end, it is between you and God. It was never between you and them anyway.”
    ― Mother Teresa

    January 24, 2013 at 11:19 pm

  4. I knew some special friends, I`ve met,
    not in person, but at IMVU on the Internet.
    A friend is someone who will always be there,
    if you need someone, they show you how much they care.
    Many days my friends have sent,
    comforting words, love and encouragement.

    This special gift of friendship, means so much,
    a special friend will always keep with you in touch.
    I feel so lucky, I have found all of you,
    when I feel down or sad, I always know what to do.
    I get online at IMVU for some time to share,
    there I find my special friends of who I care.

    At the internet and IMVU, I have found,
    some very precious friends from all around.
    Thank you friends for always being there,
    thank you for showing you all really care.
    God has blessed me with this Special gift,
    special friends to be there to give me a lift.

    This is a special thank you to my special friend Kaitlyn who I got to know through the world of IMVU. I know this is not always easy to explane in words and that I, as an outsider not always have something to say. The friendship that we built together all these months on IMVU seems to fade away. A few days ago I read a very nice quote on my search for my pinterest page. At this quote where written “A friend is someone who knows all about you and still loves you.” Kait, long ago you dragged me through a difficult time. This time I thought about leaving IMVU when a friend where disabled and didn’t came back. By your friendship and love that you give me I knew I had to stay in here and I’m very grateful for! I will do the same for you…and not only I, but I’m sure all of our friends will help you with this. Kaitlyn…I hope that after reading this poem and this little comment know, we are always there for you, through thick and thin and love and sorrow. Kait, we miss you and while we have our fingers crossed we pray that all is well with you and that you come back again real soon! Kait…we love you and miss you…Kusjes xxx Susan, Katy, Kimmi, Gabby, Ally, Collette, Steph & Wendy

    January 25, 2013 at 1:47 pm

  5. I can’t thank you all enough. And I can’t apologize enough either. I am so so sorry I had to retreat. I didn’t mean to upset anyone and feel bad about that. I love you all very dearly, much more than I can say. Thank you all soo sooo soooo much.

    January 25, 2013 at 11:13 pm

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