One of the worst things in Virtual Relationship

IMVU PrayersA virtual relationship can awesome but it can also be very painful when your partner is sick. It’s hard because there’s so little you can do for them. It’s important to be there for your partner when they’re sick in real life, but unfortunately that’s just not possible in here. It’s painful and hurts not to be able to help especially when it often means extended absences. There’s no answer and no solution that I know to this, other than just be patient, keep them in your prayers and love them more when they’re back. It’s just part of the cross we bear in a virtual world.

The only consolation I can give is that it will probably make you closer and stronger. I know it’s hard. A friend says that love is, or requires suffering. I don’t know about that, but I do know that relationships are built on shared emotions and this type of negative emotions may be extremely powerful in that. Sometimes I also think that the negative times are more real than the passion. Yes my heart aches wanting to be there for a partner when I know they’re suffering but without the rain, would we really appreciate the sunshine?

3 responses

  1. 1Suzilyn

    The best possible thing you can do for a loved one on here as they may get ill is send them prayers..I believe that keeping them in your thoughts definitely helps…not everyone believes this…But Im a shining example of Angels looking after me…Blessed with Angels..Susan

    January 22, 2013 at 9:15 pm

  2. “without the rain, would we really appreciate the sunshine?”
    i think about that a lot… i know i’ve mentioned to you. my favorite book from high school was Aldous Huxley’s Brave New World which is about that. a sci-fi dystopia. if you don’t mind the big words…

    February 5, 2013 at 11:55 am

  3. I definitely think Prayer makes a difference. Most people don’t know this Susan is the best person I know at praying in here. And praying together in imvu is super powerful. It’s very intimate and bonding. The next time you tell someone you will keep them in your prayers or you will pray for them, do it right there with them in the chat….

    February 5, 2013 at 1:52 pm

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