Communicate delicately

Communication is important but there are also times when it’s better to let things go and not to talk to much or to quickly. And you always have to keep people’s feelings in mind.

I’ve said communication is the most important thing in IMVU but you also have to be sensitive. If someone says they don’t want to talk about it, it’s good to be supportive but it’s wrong to push or force them.

communication in imvuThere are times when it’s better to let your emotions die down before talking. This is especially true with tense or angry emails. Let them sit for at least 24 hours or share and discuss it with a friend, not the person involved.

Communication is important but it’s important to do it delicately sometimes too. That’s not hiding things, that’s part of getting along smoothly.

One response

  1. quidlyn

    yea, that’s wise advise. I think this is doubly important in imvu because so much of how we communicate depends on emotions, and tone of voice and physical cues, and so much of that is much more difficult to read and left open to interpretation. often imvu is powerful enough that you can see someone’s heart anyway, but when we’re angry or upset, we’re more likely to assume the worse. so the other half of that advice is not just be careful with what you say but be even more careful with what you hear.

    November 27, 2012 at 11:24 pm

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