What am I looking for?

what are you looking for?Someone asked me this and it got me thinking a little how it’s changed and grown. When I first started here I was just looking for a safe way to feel sexy. Now I kind of want more. I still want to feel sexy but I have gotten kind of spoiled and know how much more this can be. I want to know your heart and have a magical intimate moving experience.

I like sex but don’t just want sex. Feeling sexy doesn’t even require sex as much as it does intimacy but good sex creates a feeling of intimacy. So many people who think this place is all or mostly about sex have no idea that they’re only seeing the tip of the iceberg. I think we’re all here because we want to be loved. (Am I talking about real life or imvu? Or is it true for both??)

looking to be loved in imvuI also want my friends to be happy and I want to please and love them. In some ways I’m actually best at being a second place safe and loving best friend. I love seeing my friends in love just as much as I love being so connected. I bounce around a lot and wear my heart on my sleeve a little too much sometimes. A friend and I were talking earlier today and she takes her time opening up and sizing people up before getting close. I am the opposite. I jump right in and then try to figure out afterwards if it’s the right thing.

What do I not want? I don’t want to own anyone or be owned all the time, although I do like to submit to someone strong that I can love and respect. I don’t need gifts or credits. They are a nice way to say you love someone and a way to show your appreciation though. I certainly don’t need drama or an attitude. I’m also not looking for anything real life. I realize I’m in a minority here when I say I have a great marriage and family but I do.

4 responses

  1. yungreezzy

    what’s your name on imvu I have two profiles add me yungreezy1117

    January 11, 2014 at 6:07 pm

    • My name on IMVU is really easy. It’s “Kaitlyn” :)

      January 13, 2014 at 7:43 pm

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  3. Pinklollie

    Im now starting to believe some people if not all are really into wanting for more and never settle on something for longer time.. And I belong to those few.. I discovered IMVU because I was looking for some plain virtual fun.. But as time passes Im already wanting for something more tho still in a virtual manner.. Im wanting for a stable Virtual relationship and not just some sort of random pleasures…But because of my RL status I seemed cant have it.. When I already refuse to give them my pic or talk to them outside IMVU everything just turn sour…and all those sweet words and I love yous are forgotten..:)

    I cant blame them tho, for maybe many in IMVu are into looking for a RL partner and Im not.. IMVU is now my second life whatever my avi says is what it really feels and it is felt by the person behind that avi and thats me…but whatever happening in my second life I prefer to let it remain in my second life…

    May 4, 2014 at 5:52 am

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