We all have our place.

sexiest girls on imvu in the fashion showDon’t compare yourself to someone else. There’s always someone that’s better at something than you. This is as true in here as it is in real life. Someone will have better relationships, be sexier, cuter, smarter, (and sometimes all of these things, no names!) but you can’t beat yourself up about that. All you can do is be the best you can be and look for something you’re good at. You don’t have to be perfect or the best to have fun and feel good here.

sexy girls of imvu in bed togetherYou don’t love someone because they’re perfect, though when you’re in love they do seem perfect don’t they? Just don’t turn this into a competition. It’s so not, and nobody is as hard on you as you are on yourself. This is a fun place to experiment, share things you can’t talk about or do in real life, and have a blast. Don’t make it into a job or create issues, if you can help it.

Focus on what you’re good at and what you enjoy. Share your heart and have fun with your friends. Turn the other cheek once in a while and let your light shine in here. You can be as bright and have as much fun as you want in here. Just do it all with love, uplifting everyone and be the best you can be.

3 responses

  1. this is such a great post. for real life too. i guess i’ve always seen the world this way. like a game. where everyone starts with the same number of points, but you can use those points in different ways. different strengths.

    I always thought one of the best parts of imvu was that its one of the great levelers. everybody looks the same. everybody has enough money to buy pretty much whatever outfit they want. but i guess comparisons are inevitable and human.

    but i guess the secret to happiness in buddhism but lots of religions is being happy with yourself and not worrying about how you compare to other people.

    August 31, 2012 at 11:26 pm

    • That’s a neat point. If IMVU is a game, is Life by that definition a game too? And I never even thought of IMVU as a leveler but it is. We all start even and nothing is really that expensive compared to real life things. Anyone that’s serious about it can do or be anything.

      September 2, 2012 at 4:04 am

      • i guess i’d like to think of life as a game with rules and fairness. even if i know life is not always fair, i find it helpful to think of it as fair. and that everyone is equal.

        September 3, 2012 at 7:03 pm

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