Listen to your heart

a friend I can talk to about anythingYou obviously can’t actually see the person behind the keys so you have to be more attuned to the feelings you get from them than you do in real life. You don’t have body language or as much else to go on in here. If the situation seems wrong, if someone is coming on too strong like they love you without knowing you, they might be someone you know, but with a different avi.

I think the inability to see them forces you to pay more attention and be more attune to the subtle attitudes and the little things that add up to a gut feeling. You essentially tend to develop a sense for people and you have to listen to that in here. I wear my heart on my sleeve sometimes too much but I also tend to have a good sense of people. I meet a lot of great friends but sometimes I do get a wrong feeling with someone and have to be able to walk away too. It’s not very often and this isn’t about anyone I’m friends with, but someone that I had to unfriend earlier today and I’m sure isn’t reading this.

I don’t know what the whole story was, but I had such a feeling afterwards that I just dodged a bullet. I’m here to have a good time and share that feeling with special friends but you do have to use and trust your judgment. This is a tricky thing to write and explain because it’s very hard to define. But just don’t get too caught up in things and ignore the sometimes quiet inner voice

One response

  1. aww.. i’m super curious now! sounds like a great story.

    July 26, 2012 at 10:09 pm

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