Why is this so intense and intimate?

sexy imvu girls on the beachI came here to feel sexy but was blown away by the intensity of the emotions and intimacy you can feel here. It takes a little while to get comfortable with it, to learn to lower your walls and share from your heart. New people you don’t know can be fun but it’s also helpful to find the right really good people and build strong friendships too.

I think part of it is that it’s how anonymous it is that frees us up. Part of it is how much we express emotions saying what we feel or think, creating a kind of mind meld. It probably also helps that anyone can be drop dead gorgeous and there’s no disease or risk of pregnancy. Part of it’s a shared fantasy but the emotions are real and very powerful. It can hurt if it falls apart and you have to protect your heart at the same time that you give it away, sharing very deeply. A network of friends can help even more in here than in real life too, both if anything falls apart and giving you loving support system.

We can’t actually see the other side but you develop and share a real heartfelt image as we get to know people from the inside out. It is surprisingly powerful, intimate and addicting. If you haven’t experienced the intensity of imvu sex, try it for a while. It takes a little while to develop but this is definitely part of the future, and worth some effort. It can be one of the most amazing powerful intimate things you’ve ever felt.

4 responses

  1. such a hot photo…

    i wonder if there are dangers also to all intensity. maybe its too easy and too shallow or too painful.. i dunno. i have no regrets and am happy to embrace it but something to think about.

    June 17, 2012 at 10:10 pm

  2. You think it’s hot because you know the people there. Yes it’s a great photo but the people are infinitely more attractive personality wise. :)

    I think there is danger. It’s easy to get so caught up in it and totally devastated when things crash and burn which happens sometimes. It’s also very addicting and only going to get more addicting. I think it would be even more so if I was 18, and might affect my outlook on life and attitude a lot more. It’s not the danger to young people is just predators, but intensity could tend to create dangerous swings and de sensitizes us to some pretty crazy things.

    The intensity is awesome when it’s good but you’re right there’s also danger in some ways for sure when it goes bad. :(

    June 18, 2012 at 7:11 pm

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