Quality Communication

intimate imvu girlfriendsHow much real quality communication do you get in your real life? I don’t want to say anything negative about anyone in my real life because I really am very happily married, coming up on 10 years in July. But I think it’s safe to say that I get more quality communication time with my best friends in here than most people do with the people they’re closest to in their “real life.”

I’ve been saying that I’m closer to my very best friend Gabby than anyone in imvu or real life for a little while, and a part of me felt kind of guilty saying that or like I must have a pretty pathetic life. And I do admit its kind if boring or quiet in some ways it’s not because my real life is bad. It’s because of the amount of quality time and heart felt emotion that we’ve shared. I am around people but often don’t share as much from the heart in real life. Sometimes it seems like that’s all we do in here.

It’s also hard to explain the level of love and intimacy I share with my best friends in here. It can be amazingly intimate just dancing or cuddling with friends. It’s not about poses or sexy looks, although clothes can certainly be fun to play with. It’s about the unbelievable connection, loving each other so thoroughly in the most amazing heart felt way.

I don’t mean to generalize too much but the people that don’t tend to get this tend to be guys. And if they like sex best, they don’t tend to get how important “talking with my friends” is for me, or how that can be as intimate as great sex in here.

So to all the guys that I have to decline cause I’m dancing with friends I’m sorry. I could invite you in some time, but I have to warn you that it takes some time to get that open and appreciate the closeness and intimacy.

5 responses

  1. of course i agree with you… so so so very much. I think I’m closer to many people here than almost all my friends in rl.

    May 4, 2012 at 12:06 pm

    • Yeah that is kind of the point and it feels good to at least feel like I’m not the only one so crazy like that. It’s so intense and powerful it’s almost scary sometimes. Especially with certain people… ;)

      May 6, 2012 at 8:34 pm

  2. Collettelilac

    I do not even know how to reply to this. I have danced with a friend in here and cried my eyes out in real. I thought I was going crazy! Then I did again and knew that this is really something special. I do not think I have ever felt anything quite like it in real. Like you just want to spill your heart out completely and say all the things you could never say in real to your friends. I still cannot put my finger on it? But I can say this, I love the feeling!

    May 16, 2012 at 6:07 pm

    • I don’t know if it’s how beautiful people look, or the freeness of this place. There really are no distractions, no dirty dishes, or laundry to do. There’s certainly something that allows you to speak straight from the heart more than you do in real life. And how can you not be close to people you have such quality communication with, that you experience so much emotions with, so intensely. It’s so totally addicting if you make good friends.

      May 16, 2012 at 9:20 pm

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