Control is an illusion
I guess it’s one more irony that in a place with more Dominant/Submissive relationships and variations of that than anywhere else in the world, you really can’t actually control anyone. It is a great feeling to be able to let go of yourself and please someone else, to put someone else’s needs above yours but it’s wrong to force that or require that if you haven’t made the other person WANT to do that.
In the end everything we do here is voluntary. You’re never more than a click away from leaving, and even blocking someone. In real life you can get trapped in a controlling relationship. But in here the only control you have over someone is what they give you. You can come to a mutual understanding about how you will react and what you will or won’t do. But you can’t force someone to do something or not do something in here. As soon as you try you have lost them.
The only way you can hold onto someone is with your love. If someone knows that you love them, they will want to do what you want. But as soon as you put controlling first and loving second, things are heading for trouble. This isn’t just for Dominant/Submissive relationships, it’s true for every imvu marriage or virtual relationship.
Remember that and make sure they always lo