Newcomer, AP or VIP?
Although I haven’t been on IMVU that long yet, I definitely learned a lot and know a little about dealing with people and would like to share a little. I started as a novice (noob), and like we all did, looked pretty much the same. We start to buy some clothes and things try to improve and adjust our looks and learn how to dress our selves. Then the scary part begins.
We get conversations coming at us, with acronyms we don’t understand, and you’re trying to make friends and meet people but it’s often more than a little overwhelming. Some people are trying to talk you into bed and others will be upset at your friend request or your looks or just about anything. There are certainly some nice people but things just go so fast I can hardly count the relationships I had after two weeks.
Luckily after a month and a half I decided to buy an AP membership. AP rooms are better and there seems to be more opportunities. There are so many sexy clothes and attractive people. The invitations still keep coming but you’re actually not plagued as much by real novices who are only looking for totally meaningless sex.
A few days ago just for fun, I looked again in a non AP room. When I entered there weren’t any AP members and only guests present. All 8 of the avi’s were laying on top of each other when I entered and their conversation was nothing but “ooohh, aaahh’s, mmm, and I love you and do you like it etc.” It was almost pathetic in a sense. I understand wanting sex but I feel bad for the sex hoppers that only see imvu on that level.
I’m also glad that I got my AP membership, and very grateful for such great friends. It’s not that I couldn’t meet them as a noob but I sometimes I wonder if I would have survived the start of my IMVU life without them. Be yourself and let your heart speak. I like to thank my dear friends and I never want to miss them…kisses xxx Wendy.