Protect Your Heart

imvu heart

when it comes to me, the kisses come free, but they never get all of the heart

This was a line in a Marilyn Monroe song I saw in the pilot of “Smash” on Monday. It also paralleled advice Stephanie said my sis, Gabby had given her which I thought made a good point. :-) When you first come in here and fall in IMVU love for the first time there’s almost no way to be prepared for how much you can feel, how fast and how strong it can be. It’s just one of those things that you have to experience for yourself. When you do, you’ll understand the importance of that advice, “Protect your heart.”

It’s amazing how fast things grow in here. It can definitely surprise you and catch you off guard sweeping you off your feet. It’s fun to be swept off your feet. My twin Katy said “Its amazing how many romances you get to experience and live, but it is a little scary fast.” Unfortunately it can also fall apart even faster. When what was mind blowingly good for weeks or months falls apart in a day or two, it’s going to hurt, ALOT. And I find not being able to talk to people about in real life can make it very hard too. That’s why Gabby’s advice is so important. Enjoy the ride but protect your heart a little bit too. Don’t do it to the point of being jaded or unable to enjoy the awesome rush of the mind blowing romance. But have some friends and realize that it’s the nature of the soap opera insanity sometimes.

That’s why it’s important to take your time a little (if you can) and just know that what goes up must come down, to have friends and maybe some chocolate ice cream on hand, and to know that you will get over it with some time. (I know it doesn’t feel that way at the time though, believe me we’ve all been there) I also tend to find that my experiences seem to build on each other and it’s not always the case but each new imvu romance tends to seem even more vivid and stronger than the one before. I don’t know if that’s true for everyone but the more love I feel the easier it is to love again, somehow. Anyway the point of this was to just pass on Gabby’s good advice that she gave to Stephanie. I also thought since I couldn’t pick just one of her pictures, I’d make a slideshow of the pictures with Stephanie from last night.

5 responses

  1. Morgan LaFlame

    STOP writing about me…….lol

    February 8, 2012 at 8:06 pm

    • Ohhh that shouldn’t be funny, but it kind of is… But really we all go through this. Anyone that’s here for even a little while experiences this. It’s crazy fast up and down for everyone.

      February 8, 2012 at 9:47 pm

  2. quidlyn

    aww, super touching slide show and very *very* good advice. for me tho, my biggest fear is hurting the ones I love.

    February 8, 2012 at 11:49 pm

  3. Hurting the ones you love? I think the most important way to prevent that is communication. If something you or they are doing isn’t comfortable with the other, the only solution is communication. Just don’t let it build up till it blows up. (Looking at the floor, I’ve been there and done that too.) I sound smart sometimes but I think I’ve just made a lot of mistakes, lol.


    February 9, 2012 at 12:24 am

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