Making the most Amazing Friends

some of the IMVU girls in my heart
Just like the way a blind persons other senses become even more sensitive to make up for it, in IMVU you can’t see the physical and there is no little things to get in the way, so you get better at sensing the non physical. I call this IMVU vision.  It’s almost impossible for someone who hasn’t been here for a while and experienced it to understand I know.

You can’t see with your eyes so you have to learn to feel with your heart. I think that’s why we sometimes feel such a powerful deep connection and I even say this place proves there is a soul.   These pretty pixels and words can get pretty powerful, to the point that I feel closer to friends in here than I do in real life. 

I say than “friends” in real life because I kind if feel like the friendships are more real in a sense than the love, in here.   Don’t get me wrong I do love the love too, which sounds funny to say.  But it’s loving friends in here that is my favorite part. I’d say the best thing I’ve learned in here is to love with all my heart. And I honestly couldn’t put just one person’s pictures up for this one so I picked a couple (not all!) of the IMVU girls who I feel so strongly connected right into my heart. You’ll find your own people and understand when it happens to you.

6 responses

  1. Morgan LaFlame

    Your such a good good friend Kaitlyn, I hope we countinue to be as close as we have been in the coming days. You sure have had to put up with a lot of my “freak outs” and for that I am most grateful. I would like everyone to know that although you have so much good advice that you are also very sweet and innocent. Thank you for being such a good listener and being able to roll with my punches….giggle……I love my KaityWaity…

    February 2, 2012 at 6:44 pm

  2. quidlyn

    it is amazing how close and intimate friends here so quickly become. i probably feel closer to you and can certainly tell you more about myself than some friends whom i have known for years.

    February 3, 2012 at 3:14 pm

  3. It is so awesome having amazing friends you can share the type of things you just can’t say to your friends or family in real life. Some people look at the negative things here and don’t see any of the positive things, or don’t appreciate them. There must be something healthy about being able to talk about deep emotional things with someone that isn’t judging them and won’t hold it against them. The deepness here is very surprising.

    A friend of mine brought her friend in here that she worked with and commented on how her friend could suddenly share things she would never share in real life. Even to someone that she knew in real life. It’s very interesting…

    And yes Katy you are an awesome friend and actually one of the best things about doing the website.

    Kisses!
    Kait…

    February 3, 2012 at 3:22 pm

  4. Wow…. friendships and relationships happen and change so fast. Sometimes my head spins. I am quickly learning to protect my heart and understanding that good friends are the most important.

    Thank you so much for this website. So helpful for me putting everything in perspective and focusing on the awesome times spent with good friends.

    Hugs!

    Steph

    February 5, 2012 at 2:22 pm

    • It certainly is amazing how fast and strong friendships grow in here. It tends to create a little bit of a soap opera world at times, but with good people it is awesome, to the point of being hard to describe to the rest of the world.

      Kisses!
      Kait…

      February 5, 2012 at 4:05 pm

  5. quidlyn

    and there is something special about imvu. a couple of my close friends became so much closer when we moved to imvu, and somehow it wasn’t the same seeing them in other online environments. something about the avatars creates makes the human connection more salient, more intimate.

    February 5, 2012 at 10:44 pm

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