Love takes some time

A great friend had an experience that brought up a good point. She met someone who she liked but was saying she’s totally in love with her way to fast and it makes her worry. It’s good to wear your heart on your sleeve but just like the real world, don’t say you love someone the first time you meet them. This place is built on pure emotion and I’ve said it is Miracle Grow for relationships, but it also proves again that taking your time can definitely make things last longer and be stronger. So don’t rush. The falling in love, new love, early stages are so much fun. Enjoy that and keep it light. That’s Ally’s and my short tip for today.

4 responses

  1. This is an old pic, but the one that came to mind when I thought about saying I Love You with a picture. And we didn’t rush, which is why it felt so powerful.

    January 11, 2012 at 3:44 am

  2. quidlyn

    I’m always amazed. In RL it took 6 months to get my boy to tell me I love you. In the 4 months I’ve been on imvu i’ve heard those words from more people than I can count on one hand. I try hard not to lead people on but its amazing how fast relationships develop. The advantage is that its amazing how many romances you get to experience and live, but it is a little scary fast. Your advice to take it slow is truly a good one.

    January 16, 2012 at 11:01 pm

    • There’s something about the way you phrased that that intrigues me. “It’s amazing how many romances you get to experience and live.” It’s also interesting how fast time seems to go in here. I wonder if that’s related. I’ve commented before that time seems to pass about 10 times as fast in here as it does in real life. Would you say that romances grow 10 times as fast too? It is hard to take things slow though, isn’t it?!

      January 16, 2012 at 11:42 pm

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