Stay Focused

When you’re with someone be with them. IMVU is chock full of distractions on top of distractions. Add to that our real world, my kids especially, and then phone calls or god forbid work and it seems almost impossible to focus some days. This was my best friend Morgan’s point and I have to admit I’m as bad as anyone about this. This is especially true during the day which is why the best time for me is late at night when everyone else is asleep.

I guess I’m probably involved in too many different circles and admit it’s hard to keep up and be there for so many friends at times. You can’t help but get chat invites from several people sometimes, and you have to be honest and decline sometimes, not because you don’t care, but because you do. This is a good rule of thumb when you’re talking and an absolute law if you’re getting intimate.

There is nothing worse then waiting and waiting for a response from your partner in the middle of intimacy. It’s the equivalent of falling to sleep in the middle of sex, and it’s one of the best ways to be a bad lover and annoy your partner. So don’t be upset if someone declines your chat. It’s better to do that, than to cut your attention and detract from quality time with your partner.

3 responses

  1. This was a great point from Morgan, and it’s something we all need reminding of. If you have an idea for a post, send me whatever you want to say, a sentence or two up to a couple paragraphs.

    December 28, 2011 at 1:20 am

  2. Sheri

    Thats so true! Whenever Im chatting with anyone and i notice my wife comes online its a race between us who can invite the other first, giggle, I say my Hellos to her then say got to quite a chat and Tell her brb the politely tell who i am chatting with that my wife is on and I have to leave, then I go back to our chat telling her I had to say good bye but im all hers, my x would be gobe for long periods before shed say a world and i promised myself Id never do that to my new wife and we have been happily married for over 3 monthes. you might think your fooling your partner by Juggling 2 or more chat but If you have been here for a while you know they are just following what they considering the most interesting chat and its upsetting to know they value other people then you!

    December 28, 2011 at 1:31 am

  3. Morgan LaFlame

    Thank you Kaitlyn for elaborating on my point, As I said in my original draft I’m worth someone’s full attention and passion, and so are you….ilu

    December 28, 2011 at 8:05 am

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