When and how often to invite someone

blondie and I huggingOne of my best friends asked me this recently and it’s the perfect type of question for here.  IMVU tells you how to invite but nobody tells you when or how often is alright.  First of all inviting someone you know is always a compliment and is always welcome.  But it can be done poorly too, and the invitee also has to have the right to decline.  Inviting a friend to talk with them isn’t the same thing as random invites which are usually a nuisance.

If you invite someone and they decline do not re-invite them unless it’s an emergency.  If they ignored it, you can reinvite but only after 15 to 20 minutes.  That gives them time to get back if they were away or busy for a few minutes and makes it less bothersome.  If they ignore a second one don’t invite a third time that day.  Send a message.  The only exception to the above limits is if it’s your someone special or a friend on that level and/or a real emergency.  Also don’t invite someone every time they come on especially if they don’t accept them every time.  Inviting every time they come on or inviting repeatedly makes you look like you’re chasing rather than hunting.

When you decline, give a reason if you can.  It makes it easier to accept a decline.  If you can’t give a reason at the time or ignored it, send a note to say hello or touch base.  If you might be able to get back to them it’s OK or even better to ignore it.  That way it’ll be in your missed chat invites.  Look at your missed chat invites if you’ve been away from your puter when you were on.  Inviting wrong or not responding or checking your missed chats has caused issues and increased drama, so it’s important to try to do this correctly.

The bottom line is that, if you’re in doubt invite someone, but just don’t do it repeatedly or it can turn into a negative.

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