Virtual Marriages on IMVU?!

virtual weddings on imvu
Virtual marriage is a crazy concept to anyone new here. Being married in real life, I was probably more afraid of it than anyone. I made one of my rules that I can’t possibly do that. In some ways it sounds silly in such a free crazy place to want to make that type of commitment. Don’t worry we all think that. Just have a good time and play it by ear.

Just don’t be surprised if you wake up one morning and realize that is the only way to describe what you feel. About the time you realize what’s happened, you’ll also realize that it’s really not making a commitment, so much as acknowledging how you feel and the commitment you already have. That’s how this place sneaks up on you. That’s when you’ll turn around and realize how beautiful it is and that you suddenly want to do this very badly for your partner. And honestly it doesn’t have to take away any of the emotion from your real life marriage or relationships if you keep the worlds separate.

5 responses

  1. sheri682

    I have been married for over 3 monthes on IMVU and can not believe how true your story is! But in my case it reverse. My long term partner and I are getting married in real life and I feel like im cheating on my IMVU wife, She is so open to me getting married that I would love her to come to it, It sounds silly but we love each other and even people we dont know On IMVU says to us after hearing us talk that we must be really in love.

    December 14, 2011 at 2:14 pm

    • Wow, that’s a neat story and a different twist for sure. I know single people and married people but none that are getting married irl. It’s tempting to cross over at that point and I think Holly is the only one I would break any rules for, which scares me let me tell you. But you know that would only complicate things. Maybe you can write two paragraphs or so about what you end up doing??

      December 14, 2011 at 2:26 pm

  2. I wonder, I know couples that end up in counseling because one of them is chatting or sms:ing someone the other doesn’t like. If I am in love with someone can I really be in love with my partner too? What about if you think about your virtual partner when you are intimate in reality?

    Personally I doubt we are so evolved that we can really seperate the virtual from emotional reality – we get wrapped up in both and then they both become real don’t they?
    Interesting, I will talk with some of my friends about this!

    December 18, 2011 at 11:42 pm

    • I worried a lot about that when I first saw virtual marriages here. It really scared and worried me. But my experience has only been pretty good that way. I stay VERY safe. I don’t take anything into reality except a good loving feeling. I have dreamed in IMVU, seeing bubbles and the people from here in my dreams. I even saw them in my head when I was awake when we went to Bourbon Street in New Orleans, but that’s another post. I’m sure it varies from person to person, and situation to situation. But I have a feeling that it’s not really creating the problems unless you’re putting in so much time you’re hurting your life which I admit I have to watch, or you’re crossing over. (Crossing over from virtual to reality to me makes it cheating, which should probably be another post too) There are so many interesting variations and aspects of this, I think it’s really interesting.

      December 19, 2011 at 12:11 am

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