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Saving your IMVU chat logs


I take a lot of pictures because they are memories but the chat text or log is also sometimes helpful to have. So I try to remember to save my chat logs when I’m leaving. I am trying to get better but I still do forget sometimes. I’m getting better by saving the chats along the way if it’s important or after a sexy chat. This is helpful in case I forget when I close the window or if I crash.

I save the text into a word document. I copy a line or two with my mouse then use Control A, to select All of the text. Control C, copies the text and then Control V when i have a new document open. You can close the window after you copy the chat to the clip board but you can’t close IMVU all together or it will erase the chat in your clipboard.

After I paste the chat, I look at my pictures and select the most appropriate one, click on it and copy that, and then paste it into the top of the chat. I find that it’s much easier to remember a chat if I have a picture to go with the text. When you save a lot of chats this makes it easier to find the right chat. Try to describe the most important aspect of the chat, but the difference between saving pics is that you don’t have to include everyone’s names since the names are in the text. So when you search on a name, all of the chats with that name in them, will automatically show up.

I admit that I don’t go back and read chats as much as I probably should. But having them is helpful because you never know when someone is going to misunderstand something. I also find it’s interesting because I can search a directory on my computer for someone’s name and know if I ever talked to them before. This is helpful to me since I’m really bad with names.

I save chats but don’t share them with people very often, other than sometimes Holly or Gabby, the two people I’m the closest to. My general rule of thumb is that I don’t share anything that isn’t in everyone’s best interest. I don’t want anyone to think that what they say to me privately will get around to other people. The same goes for pictures. I take a lot of pictures but I try very hard to not use them in a way to hurt or annoy anyone. We all rely on our ability to speak freely. That’s part of the fun of this place, that what you say here stays here. So have fun and just use this as a way to hold onto the good feelings you get here.

The dream of an angel…

I dreamed of an angel dancing,
spinning gracefully across my mind.
Fairest beauty I ever witnessed,
I dream of her now every night.

If you had seen this angel before me,
you’d be dreaming now just like I do.
Then you know that I can assure you,
just like me you’d want her too.

When I awake I feel so rested,
I know this angel has held my heart.
In her sweet love while I am dreaming,
each day I’m ready for a fresh new start.

I dreamed of an angel dancing,
spinning gracefully across my mind.
Fairest beauty I ever witnessed.
I dream of her now every night.

When will my reflection show who I am inside?

I don’t know what kids did in the car before dvd players, or maybe it’s that I don’t know how parents were able to drive kids without dvds. I’m not even sure our car will work right without a disney dvd playing. I have memorized some videos I’ve never even seen. The other day I was listening to a song and realized it was singing about IMVU. The song was “When will my reflection show who I am inside?” from Mulan.

I was going to just link the YouTube video in here but wondered how it would look in IMVU. So I bought it on iTunes and went to a couple rooms and started singing. It’s my first real music video, well other than my Kiss Me one. It is so neat and kind of opens up a lot of neat possibilities. :) I love the words of this song, and don’t know where to put it in here, but it just seems to be about IMVU in a sense.

If you like it please Like it at YouTube or watch it there if you prefer.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fnzgKB8z2SE

Not Another Update

the new imvu chat invite window

I like improvements but I hate updates because they seem to go hand in hand with crashes. I try to wait a few days before doing updates unless it sounds like something really major, just on general principle. But when I crashed 5 times in a single night I figured it was necessary. 3 of them were blue screen bad crashes and it seemed to have messed up some programs which had to be reinstalled.

Anyway it did get more stable for me after updating although that certainly wasn’t a very high bar. The one thing I do like don't act like an imvu noob in the new update is the new chat invite box. It shows not only who’s inviting you, and some information about them but it also shows you the room their inviting you to and how many people are in it. It’s nice because it tells you more about the invite ahead of time.

The room you were inviting from before didn’t matter that much before but now suddenly it does, almost as much as your profile picture. It’s very easy to change your default room and it’s suddenly much more important than ever before. Even if you’re new, you should change your default room as soon you’re able to because inviting someone to the default room is like keeping your default profile picture. It makes you look like you don’t know what you’re doing and or you don’t care very much.

Passing Sexy Notes

I wrote a sexy note to a friend and decided it was good and had to save and reuse it. I sent it to 3 or 4 friends that it seemed appropriate to send it to. One sexy friend who’s the best at notes continued where I left off and before we knew it we both making the sexiest story together. It’s always good to send notes. Don’t use my note, but hopefully you enjoy it and it inspires you.

writing notes and sexy messages in imvuHere’s my first note:
You hear soft footsteps behind you and a finger light trails on your shoulders and your neck like a poor silent glide your waste. You feel a shiver dance down your spine when I kiss your neck, and my breasts gently pressing it against your back. My pillow turn to snacks and move to the side of your neck as my second arm slides around you. My whole body is now pressed against your back and you think I have a naked or not wearing much in the heat of my skin. you try to make your head spin, but my lips feel your ear, and my warm breath in your ear. A hand slides up your chest and the other sides down your belly. a low animal sound as my tongue dances moaning in your ear and my fingers fine to trace your panty line, rubbing the side fabric gently. you close your eyes and one arm back confirming your suspicion as you squeeze my bare ass, reaching pulled me harder against you. My pussy grinds against you I like as I mouth hoarse words in your ear, I love you ….

Her first response:
Slowly I close my eyes and enjoy the moment with you behind me. With my hand on your bare ass I press you closer to me. I feel the warmth of your body through the soft fabric of my nighty. The hot breath from your mouth feels like a gentle breeze in my neck. You soft kisses on my neck betray my tickling spots! I try to turn my head slightly to give you more freedom in my neck. Even though I know that I can hardly handle this spot, but the enjoyment and feeling that my body is going through is indescribable. My whole body trembles at the touch of your kisses and tonque in my neck. My other arm goes behind your head while my fingers play with your beautiful long soft hair. I arch my back a bit and feel my knees buckling. Softly I whisper, while I hear the tremor in my voice that I love you. I hear your laugh between the kisses and feel how your hand slowly teasingly along the soft material of my undies slips. Suddenly your other hand moves down too and grabs my nighty at both sides…

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Quality Communication

intimate imvu girlfriendsHow much real quality communication do you get in your real life? I don’t want to say anything negative about anyone in my real life because I really am very happily married, coming up on 10 years in July. But I think it’s safe to say that I get more quality communication time with my best friends in here than most people do with the people they’re closest to in their “real life.”

I’ve been saying that I’m closer to my very best friend Gabby than anyone in imvu or real life for a little while, and a part of me felt kind of guilty saying that or like I must have a pretty pathetic life. And I do admit its kind if boring or quiet in some ways it’s not because my real life is bad. It’s because of the amount of quality time and heart felt emotion that we’ve shared. I am around people but often don’t share as much from the heart in real life. Sometimes it seems like that’s all we do in here.

It’s also hard to explain the level of love and intimacy I share with my best friends in here. It can be amazingly intimate just dancing or cuddling with friends. It’s not about poses or sexy looks, although clothes can certainly be fun to play with. It’s about the unbelievable connection, loving each other so thoroughly in the most amazing heart felt way.

I don’t mean to generalize too much but the people that don’t tend to get this tend to be guys. And if they like sex best, they don’t tend to get how important “talking with my friends” is for me, or how that can be as intimate as great sex in here.

So to all the guys that I have to decline cause I’m dancing with friends I’m sorry. I could invite you in some time, but I have to warn you that it takes some time to get that open and appreciate the closeness and intimacy.

In the Matrix you can be as happy and have as much fun as you want.

IMVU is what you make of it just like your real life is, but unlike real life you can literally make it anything you want. Nobody’s real life is perfect but you really can’t or shouldn’t use that as an excuse for anything in here because your real life doesn’t matter. I know this is repetitive but the beauty of this place is that you can really be anything you want no matter what your life has been.

I talked to a friend today that had serious health issues and said that he was bitter because of his health and how hurt he had been in the past. He would up throwing his relationship away and blamed it all on his health and past. I tried to help him at the end, not to save that relationship (with my friend) but so he could at least do better in the future. Blaming other people or your circumstances is nice because it means you don’t have to try. But it also means you’ve given up any ability to change it. In here none of that matters very much and you can turn everything around or change anything you want at any time.

It’s hard to turn your real life around, to get a new job or start a new relationship or move can leave your life disrupted or even in a shambles for a long time. We’ve all been there and know it can takes years to get over major real life setbacks. But here, it’s like the Matrix. You can be the One if you believe. You can be as fast and as strong as you want to be. You can be as happy as you want to or as u can see yourself here. Close your eyes. Say a prayer if it helps. Put on some exciting or uplifting music and “Act the way you want to be.” You can’t help but feel better, almost immediately. If you act sexy, you’ll feel sexier, even if you didn’t before you started. You don’t have to fix everything or be perfect to feel better. Just act more that way and you will be that way.

sexy imvu fairiesIt’s almost like living in a dream. You can go with the flow letting it direct you, or you can consciously direct it. IMVU can be as fun as you want to make it. It’s a shame more people don’t realize this secret and have more fun. You are hereby unlocked from your situation, from your past and are now free to be anything you want.

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You are now free to move about the country…

My Sexy Teacher

learning about love in imvuIf there’s any doubt about the intensity of the emotions and things that just “happen” in here this video blows that out of the water.  We just started talking and wound up with another one of those once in a lifetime moments that seems to happen several times a week in here.  It used pretty mild GA pose (though there were lots of sexy ones in the room), and pretty mild GA clothes (because neither of us wanted to stop even for a few seconds).  But it was one of the sexiest talks that just slayed me.  If there was ever any doubt what makes someone sexy I think this proves it’s the emotion and words.

Control is an illusion

control is an illusion even in marriage or with sexy slave girls
I guess it’s one more irony that in a place with more Dominant/Submissive relationships and variations of that than anywhere else in the world, you really can’t actually control anyone. It is a great feeling to be able to let go of yourself and please someone else, to put someone else’s needs above yours but it’s wrong to force that or require that if you haven’t made the other person WANT to do that.

In the end everything we do here is voluntary. You’re never more than a click away from leaving, and even blocking someone. In real life you can get trapped in a controlling relationship. But in here the only control you have over someone is what they give you. You can come to a mutual understanding about how you will react and what you will or won’t do. But you can’t force someone to do something or not do something in here. As soon as you try you have lost them.

The only way you can hold onto someone is with your love. If someone knows that you love them, they will want to do what you want. But as soon as you put controlling first and loving second, things are heading for trouble. This isn’t just for Dominant/Submissive relationships, it’s true for every imvu marriage or virtual relationship.
Remember that and make sure they always lo

Real Friends and Support

real friends dancing hooters girlsMy husband had shoulder surgery this morning. It seemed to go as smoothly possible and there were no complications or issues. He’s home in bed now and heavily medicated. I really want to thank everyone that wrote and prayed for us.

For anyone that thinks this is just a game or only about sex, I wish they could see my messages. Last night after reassuring him I came here to get reassured and hugs from my best friends here. being close and supporting friends on imvuWhile I was in the waiting room it was my friends here that I had to talk to and thought about.

Real Life friends are important. They can help get the kids to school when you’re at the hospital and have an advantage being there in person. But that doesn’t mean your friends in here aren’t real, just because they’re not real life. It’s hard to appreciate how important friends in here are until you have a really difficult situation. It’s kind of like your secret support network. I have so many great friends here it would be hard to find a time that there wasn’t someone here for me. They may not be a replacement for real life friends, but there’s no way to put a price on the support you get in here.

A land where anything is possible

the president of imvu

Even the President uses IMVU on his oval office laptop, (but don't tell Michelle).


I mentioned in the post about Susan’s Wipeout Video, that it would be neat to have an oval office room in imvu. It was just a random thought as I was writing. Well wouldn’t you know it, a few hours later I got an invite to her oval office. We had a blast. We found some Obama masks and a Clinton mask and had a great time.

We don’t usually talk about politics much in here because this place is so international and you don’t want to turn people off unnecessarily. But there are so many possibilities with this. I can see being able to make mock commercials, funny remarks about current events or even staining a blue dress. I think Susan will probably make this room public too, and I’ll link that here so you can make your own imvu fun. The point though is like the title suggests, imvu really is the land where absolutely anything is possible.

Pulled in so many directions

prioritizing and my imvu vampire mistress
Katy (my favorite inspiration for posts) said something just a few minutes ago in a comment about connections, “I often feel pulled in so many directions at once and feel bad for having to decline so many invites…” I’ve been feeling that a lot lately. The other possible title I thought about for this thought was, “Does Declining or Someone’s avoiding you?” The answer is NO. And if you think I’m avoiding you, the answer is almost always no. I really don’t avoid very many people. I occassionally unfriend a couple that don’t want to spend more time with. But my problem lately has definitely been not prioritizing way more than making anyone a low priority.

Part of the issue for me is that I’ve let my friends list get so big, because I figured with the website it was important to build my contacts and friends. And I’m on a lot but have trouble getting to see even the important people. I also tend to end up hanging out with the people that seek me out more than the ones I seek out. Sometimes that’s the people that invite me and sometimes it’s coming to say hi. I apologize because there are definitely a lot of great people that I don’t get time to go see.

Another thing that makes it hard is that I don’t have or use my own home base or room. Some friends make amazing rooms but I don’t ever get around to doing what I should and I end up hanging out in lots of differenot rooms. It would be easier if I stayed in one room and had all my friends in the same room at the same time. I wind up with my finger in too many different pies. Again I guess it might be better if I prioritized more and used DND a little more too. If I had one single big circle rather than so many. Alot of the people I know are individual connections which like katy said in her comment makes it harder.

I guess the lessons in this at least to reach me are, be persistant and patient, get to know some of my friends if you can, and don’t just invite me pc, come and say hello in the room I’m in. But just make sure it’s a room you fit in with first. Guys don’t follow me to lesbian rooms or theme rooms you’re not into, or a birthday party for someone you don’t know. And know that I take being invite as a compliment even if I can’t go, and don’t be offended if I can’t go, or sometimes accept even though I can’t stay and just wanted to say Hi. I’m not avoiding you.

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