How important are friends for you…
How important are friends really for everyone? Friends in the real world are for everyone of course the most important, but friends in the virtual world of IMVU you may have certainly not forgotten.
The difference between these two groups is that you can touch your friends in the real world, you can go out with them or doing some shopping’s or just has some drinks or cuddle close near them. With your friends within the virtual world is this something else. It would be a bit strange if you and your laptop walks on a Saturday evening into a pub or a club and order a soda or some beer for the both of you, or even worse when you lay on top of your laptop or worse at your home computer! One thing I certainly learned in the virtual world and that is that I’ve met people who have become very dear to me and some even more than some friends in the real world.
With friends in this virtual world you can’t if you do not live very close together, such as the distance between the different continents, come on for just a visited or cuddle close to them. Use therefore your imagination. Believe me, this is definitely something that has become extremely valuable to me, just like everyone I’ve met and learn to know better in here!
An example is my sweet and very close friend, Kait. I have met her a few months ago, through a common friend who unfortunately no longer exists within IMVU. I didn’t have had much experience at that time with imvu and was quite a novice, as I may say. At the moment when I saw near the name of this friend the word “disabled” I didn’t knew what to do. I only knew and hoped that Kait could help me with this! Very nervous I asked Kait for some help. From that moment she is a pretty important part in my life and thanks to her I build a very close circle of friends up in this world! Friends I love each one of which, of course some in particular!
Kait I am very grateful for this and wanted to do something personally for you to put in the limelight. Even though I know that you are quite modest but I’m grateful for everything you have taught me right now and I am very proud that I am a writer of your web page may be. Kait I love you and always will do, Wendy kisses xxx
Of all life’s
blessings
I know how much I am blessed
To have you beside
It’s a wonderful feeling
That I cherish and treasure
Best friends to Each Day
Each day I love you dearly
You are always there
Encouraging me Each Day
I am so thankful for you
Quality Communication
How much real quality communication do you get in your real life? I don’t want to say anything negative about anyone in my real life because I really am very happily married, coming up on 10 years in July. But I think it’s safe to say that I get more quality communication time with my best friends in here than most people do with the people they’re closest to in their “real life.”
I’ve been saying that I’m closer to my very best friend Gabby than anyone in imvu or real life for a little while, and a part of me felt kind of guilty saying that or like I must have a pretty pathetic life. And I do admit its kind if boring or quiet in some ways it’s not because my real life is bad. It’s because of the amount of quality time and heart felt emotion that we’ve shared. I am around people but often don’t share as much from the heart in real life. Sometimes it seems like that’s all we do in here.
It’s also hard to explain the level of love and intimacy I share with my best friends in here. It can be amazingly intimate just dancing or cuddling with friends. It’s not about poses or sexy looks, although clothes can certainly be fun to play with. It’s about the unbelievable connection, loving each other so thoroughly in the most amazing heart felt way.
I don’t mean to generalize too much but the people that don’t tend to get this tend to be guys. And if they like sex best, they don’t tend to get how important “talking with my friends” is for me, or how that can be as intimate as great sex in here.
So to all the guys that I have to decline cause I’m dancing with friends I’m sorry. I could invite you in some time, but I have to warn you that it takes some time to get that open and appreciate the closeness and intimacy.
Real Friends and Support
My husband had shoulder surgery this morning. It seemed to go as smoothly possible and there were no complications or issues. He’s home in bed now and heavily medicated. I really want to thank everyone that wrote and prayed for us.
For anyone that thinks this is just a game or only about sex, I wish they could see my messages. Last night after reassuring him I came here to get reassured and hugs from my best friends here. 
While I was in the waiting room it was my friends here that I had to talk to and thought about.
Real Life friends are important. They can help get the kids to school when you’re at the hospital and have an advantage being there in person. But that doesn’t mean your friends in here aren’t real, just because they’re not real life. It’s hard to appreciate how important friends in here are until you have a really difficult situation. It’s kind of like your secret support network. I have so many great friends here it would be hard to find a time that there wasn’t someone here for me. They may not be a replacement for real life friends, but there’s no way to put a price on the support you get in here.
IMVU Proposal
A friend recently proposed and Kait’s cameras were there. Actually I thought it was cute and made a quick video with it. Hope you like it. Congratulations BlackCobra23 and SexyAngelGoddess01
Falling in love second hand
What an amazing week! It’s an such an awesome feeling falling in love, but what I didn’t realize was how awesome it is to share that feeling with someone you have a full heart connection with. In your 40s you don’t get that first true love feeling very much but I got a double dose big time this week. Like so much of what you experience here, its extremely hard to explain, but I have to try to share just a little of that here.
First of all I have to say for the gazillionth time, I have the most amazing friends! And even better, I have the most amazing connections with them. On a side note, it’s interesting how every relationship is different even within a very tight knit group. I came here for intimacy and again in a surprising and hard to explain way, I really feel a wonderful version of that intimacy with my close friends. It’s not overly physical with many of them. But it’s definitely extremely heart felt with all of them though.
Ally had her first “date” with a real life GF on saturday and then an awesome sexy adventure Thursday. She was told to bring her bathing suit although they actually went skinny dipping instead. When the police came though they had to sacrifice their clothes but they made a slightly less than clean get away.
Not to be out done, Stephanie is head over heels herself with her new boyfriend, Granola boy. It was so much fun dragging the story out of her with such amazing friends. I really do live vicariously and feel the emotion more than anyone will believe. I’ve laughed to the point of tears for hours with the most amazing friends ever. Second hand love in a place with such amazing connections can be so awesome.
Loving my old Friends
You’ll lose a few friends along the way in here. People misunderstand things or have situations, and things happen. If you’re here long enough someone will get upset at something you do or say, or something you don’t do or say. The only person that never upsets anyone is the person that does and says nothing. Try to do your best but also realize it’s how you handle situations that come up, that counts.
You still lose friends sometimes. There are some that I won’t ever get back which is probably for the best. But if you stick with it and continue to be a friend, sometimes things do come back around. I recently had two old friends come back in the same day. One of my best friends was fairly recently upset with me, but I tried to just be stay her friend and love her.
The other was from about a year ago, which is a long time for me since I’ve only been here a little over a year. She walked into a room and was a friend of a friend. At first I thought this couldn’t be the person I knew, but it was and we immediately picked it back up. The ironic part was that I had just unblocked her a couple days earlier when I blocked someone by mistake on my cell phone. There are a lot of people here but sometimes it’s a very small world too.
Anyway the point is that you can’t please or fix everything but if you stick with it and be a friend the good ones will come back.
Kiss Me in IMVU
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I put this post in the FRIENDS category because these are mostly all my friends, not random people. It was hard to pick and limit this. I probably could have included several times as many kisses and people if I had had time. But I wanted to make this as a video for the song. It’s actually what I see in my mind every time I hear this song. I hope you like it. Did you see yourself in it??
Morgan I AM your Friend
We have been great friends through a lot of ups and downs. It hasn’t always been easy and I know you have been hurt. But I do care and love you with all my heart and have always tried to be your friend. I am friends with other people too but that doesn’t take anything away from my friendship with you. I love you with all my heart and believe in you. I understand that you need time and things happen but know that I am here for you with open arms hoping you’ll come back. In the words of a good friend, I can’t not be your friend. And I’m still listening and still loving you, Kiki!
Kisses!
Kait…
I apologize that this is more personal and less of a tip or advice about imvu. I guess it’s a little bit of personal drama but hope you won’t mind, because I wanted to put this on the record for my good good friend who really just needed a reminder that she’s important and truly is loved and a friend. ~Kait
My VBFF Gabby
I am very fortunate to have the honor of calling Gabrielle Bleue Doll my very best friend, my sister, my boss, secret partner, occasionally my mistress, and all the time my very friend ever. And I don’t mean just my best friend in IMVU, I really mean my best friend ever. In a lot of ways she’s my mentor and I certainly look up to her, and can’t help but smile when I look at her either.
The pixels aren’t real but the emotions definitely are, and you can say that the sex isn’t real, but I have to tell you that the friendships definitely are very real. And Gabby is a pure friend and I’ve done my best to help her and be a pure friend since I had the privilege of getting to know her. Yes I may be crazy but the rumors that she was the night nurse in my psych ward are false. She is one of the most competent, level headed and loving, beautiful people I’ve ever had the good fortune to know.
Sometimes I swing and my emotions get the best of me, but you can always count on Gabby. She’s a rock and the most amazing friend anyone could ever imagine. And yes I hear she’s the most amazing lover ever, but I would trade in a heartbeat, all the gratification in here to have just one pure real friend like Gabby. Gabby is the Queen of Real, and is really and always my friend.
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Calling all Imvu Girls
I wrote a post titled “Imvu Girls” the other day after talking with someone about Internet marketing. It’s a popular query so I thought it would be smart to write about and see if I can rank for that term. I put up a short post about it with pictures of Gabby (and Katy) and now a few links and a month later that page is ranked 7 or 8 on google for the term Imvu Girls, which is awesome since the first two are imvu, and then the next three are videos, so it’s number 2 or 3 after that.
I’m sure that’s because Google realizes that my best friends are the best girls in IMVU of course. So I wanted to brag for a moment but also say that if anyone else wants their pic up there it’s GIRLS, not GIRL so I could include more if you wanted ;-) This is your website too and I want to include a few more friends and even future friends. You can put them in an album and tell me to download them or email them to me at Kaitlyn.imvu@yahoo.com. Sharing is the fun of of this, both in Imvu and the website too.
My Twin Lyn
I’ve certainly put a few pictures of her up lately but I haven’t publicly announced my twin sister, Katy (Quidlyn). I didn’t think I had a last name, cause Kaitlyn is my first name (although spelled a hair different irl) but it turns out that I do have a last name, Lyn.
It is an interesting coincidence that both our avi names and even our real names are extremely similar but the real reason we are twins is that we are even more similar inside. That’s a little harder to explain but we can and have talked for hours. I’ve never met anyone so easy to talk to and we didn’t just connect but felt like we realized we were connected. There was just no other way to describe it.
And anyone interested in twin fantasies just send your request to Quidlyn with several gifts and I’ll do anything with her. Hehee… I’ll have to work on some fun twin fantasies soon too.
Nod Nod… :)
My new love Tammy
Isn’t new love the best? It makes the whole world seem wonderful and you sunny. I wanted to share a few pics of my wonderful love, Tammy. It’s only a couple days I know but I feel so awesome I just had to share. You know how that goes when you just can’t think of anything else. I love you Tammy.
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Good Memories with ChristiSynz
I still love Christi. That’s why it’s hard in a sense, but I’m glad to be her friend. We were together, practically constantly for several months and have a lot of great memories. She is a lot of fun, very loving and a very beautiful and strong person.
I made this to try to remind her and remember the good part. We all grow and things constantly evolve in here. I understand that and will try to hold onto the good parts and let go of anything else. I made this for her because I mean it and wanted her to know how much I loved her.
Sexy and Scary at the same time
Cyndia and Mace Poena are a great couple, have an awesome family but they would have scared the crap out of me when I first met them. They are great role players and play as tough as their costumes make them look, but are always sexy at the same time. When I was taking their pictures for my friends wall this afternoon, I was blown away by the feeling of being turned on and at least a little bit scared at the same time. The anticipation and edge to it made it more fun than I had ever expected. But that’s what you seem to get with these two.
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I LOVE YOU HOLLY
These are my wedding vows to Holly. I love her with all my heart and wanted her to know that while I am away. The pictures aren’t bad but there is one or two with a little skin in them. :-)
Congratulations Tina and Adam
Congratulations to Foolish99 (Adam) and TRIIXBEBE (Tina) on their wedding today, Friday November 18th.
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Wedding Vows
Weddings in IMVU are slightly different than real life. You write you own vows because it’s not a question of being legal as much as meaning a lot to the people involved. Here are the vows from a wedding from my best friend’s wedding. Actually it was between two of my best friends that I introduced. :-)
The Magic of IMVU
One of the best things about IMVU is the variety of people you get to meet and the quality of friendships that you develop. I’ve made a in awful lot of friends here. And while some come and go some also stay and touch us very deeply. And this strange IMVU vision you develop here lets us look past the surface into their heart, in a way you don’t often get to do in the real world. Add to that sharing some tremendous emotional highs and lows and you start to see the magic of IMVU.
Friends
The most important thing you’ll develop here, after a little while here are your friends. The pixels may be virtual, but it’s a person on the other side of the pixels and the relationships are real. And be careful because they can be amazingly powerful actually, like a direct connection from your heart to theirs. To me that’s what this place is all about. Friends is a broad term that covers a variety of relationships. I have two wives, and certainly doesn’t seem strong enough. To call these people friends is like calling Picasso’s paintings. These are some of the greatest people anywhere in IMVU or anywhere.
