Kaits week in Review
I had an idea for a fun post. This doesn’t fit into any category exactly so I’ll stick in into About Me. I take a lot of pictures of everything I do in here. This morning I had 239 Megs of pics and a few video clips before lunch, (I know crazy right). Anyway I thought it might be fun to make a quick review of this past week in IMVU. It shows in a cute way the diversity of this crazy world and how much fun it can be. All I did was pick out a picture or two from each group and sort them by date order and throw in some music and a title.
No two people will ever have the same experience in here, and I admit this probably means more to me than anyone else watching this cause these are all memories to me. But it seems to make my sleep deprived week seem good and worthwhile somehow. My awesome friends are what made it so amazing, and you’ll see quick glances of them. I hope this says in an interesting way just a little bit of why IMVU is so addicting and can be so mind blowingly fun. It sort of shows why it feels like time passes quicker in here. It’s never boring and you never know what you’re going to be doing even an hour from now. It also shows why I feel like the luckiest girl in the world in here. Just another week in IMVU…
Would you like a Dance?
I’m just starting to dance. I was always kind of intrigued with that before but made me nervous at the same time. I know a few imvu girls that do well with it. I kind of figure that it’s part of the imvu experience and if I only do it one night a week it won’t change my attitude or make things less fun or take me away from my friends very much.
I come here to feel sexy and have fun and I love to flirt and play. So this seems like a natural thing to try. Some clubs have rules that the girls can’t actually do anything but tease. I like teasing but I kind of want to be able to do more though if I want to, so I’m going to try a club that does escorting too. I don’t fake things and want to really enjoy it though so I have to wait till late at night when everyone here is asleep. Anyway come see if if you can tonight. I’ll leave my location on when I’m there so feel free to join me if you can too.
Living Vicariously through Friends
I know nobody really has as much fun in real life as they we do in here. But I have to confess that part of the fun in here is living vicariously through my friends. Yeah I know my life is boring but that goes with the territory, being married with kids and I love my family.
I can’t talk about some of the craziest things but ironically it’s not less fun than it looks, it’s actually more. And I love being able to share it with some of the people that read this more than I can say. So the purpose of this post is just to thank you ALL of you for being such amazing friends. You know who you are and I thank you from the bottom of my MILFy heart! Kisses, Kait!!!
Am I married?
Yes and Yes. I’m kind of weird I guess, being straight and happily married to a man in RL with three kids, and married to a the sexiest woman I’ve ever met in here. I was mostly lez when I started in here, afraid that every guy would turn into a stalker or that it would hurt my RL marriage. It also seemed that women were easier to talk to and it wasn’t centered around or focused on sex. Over the past year I’ve gone from being unwilling to friend guys to having half my sex with them, but I have to confess I don’t have the type of relationships with guys that I do with girls.
Sometimes people assume that if I’m married here that means I’m taken. Marriages here have a lot more variety than they do in real life. I feel like I have the best of both worlds cause my IMVU wife doesn’t just allow me to have fun, she pushes me like crazy, not just to have fun but to share my heart and I do. The connection with Holly is way above anything else, but it’s an amazing feeling to feel so much in love with her and have so much fun at the same time. It makes me feel even closer and so much more appreciative of her. The badder I am the more she likes it, and the more fun it is for me as she pushes me. This wouldn’t be for everyone but is so one of the reasons why I say I’m the luckiest girl in imvu.
A little Appreciation goes a long way
I appreciate people who appreciate me.
I’ve been so busy here, even more than normal lately with so many new friends. I feel bad because I don’t even have time some of the real friends I need to see any more.
Its especially hard with guys. I’m not an escort. I do this for fun and I don’t fake much. So I can’t do it when there are other people around in my real life and I generally only have a limited amount of time and energy for that. Not to mention the drama that can make it hard too.
So for guys if you want to talk that’s fine but if you want to do more than that it’s only appropriate to show some appreciation. 3 WL gifts is less than the cost of the gas to go out to dinner. And if you want me to set aside a special time or do a fantasy date you can at least spend the equivalent of one beer at the bar. It’s not like I NEED for much. But I spend an average of 5k per day on this and want to spend the limited amount of time I have with people who appreciate me.
It also doesn’t hurt to have interesting outfits and role play some fun fantasies. Its not just the credits but emotion that fakes it fun. You can spend more than this trying to get even a mediocre dancer to remember your name before you find out she only really likes girls. Don’t take this the wrong way because it has to be fun. If it’s not fun nothing else matters. I like pleasing people and making friends and have so much freaking fun here it’s unreal at times.
Kait’s IMVU guide and Virtual Relationship advice
IMVU is an insane place that’s all about chatting, dancing, meeting new people, beautiful sexy cartoons, shopping, sexy clothes, strip clubs, parties of every description, and of course lots of sex, all in a reasonably safe virtual way. The real secret that some people never figure out or that at least takes a long time to figure out, is that under all that, imvu is really about relationships. The variety of relationships is as vast and diverse as the two million people from over 80 countries.
Virtual relationships here can also be amazingly powerful and develop much faster here in this crazy world than in real life, without all of the distractions and nuisances of real life. Unfortunately I couldn’t find any frank real world advice about IMVU or virtual relationships. So after talking about that long enough I decided it was time to try to put something helpful for the IMVU community together. I don’t work for IMVU or even know anyone that does. This is just one crazy MILF’s random collection of thoughts and experiences in here. I try to keep most of the more adult things in a Private Section with passwords, but many of the images are pretty sexy and geared toward an adult audience.
I hope you enjoy it and I’d love to hear your comments or feedback. IMVU User Name: Kaitlyn (send a message before Adding me as a Friend)
Satistics after a month
Just a small update as of 12/6. I started this 4 weeks ago and have almost 100 posts and just went over 1000 page views. In some ways it’s funny becaue I’m just making things up as I go. I’m really enjoying it though and it’s kind of fun to watch it grow and come together.
Who is Kaitlyn?
The Urban Dictionary Definition of Kaitlyn
Hot, gorgeous, sexy woman. Who loves to have a good time. Gives good advise and very wise. is very caring when it comes to other peoples problems, she is very trust worthy. Loves it rough, but you better watch out because her nice church girl personality will fool you, once you get to know her your will find that there is a wild women inside waiting to show herself. Everyone wants to bang her but she’s taken. Every guy wants her but they cant have her, has amazing boobs and ass. But don’t touch or she will fuck your world up.
I’m really just a regular person who was curious and came here to feel sexy in a safe, fun way and was totally unprepared for the dazzlingly unique world of virtual relationships here. I spent the first week or two here, just exploring empty rooms because I was afraid to talk to people. I was even more scared when I saw how strong virtual relationships can become here. Being very happily married I was very afraid how this would impact my real life family. I made lots of mistakes and kept saying I wish there were teachers or some way to learn from other people’s experience in here.
I started this because I thought there should be a place for people looking for some type of help or a guide. So I writing this to share some random ideas and help anyone interested.
