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Kait’s IMVU guide and Virtual Relationship advice

IMVU is an insane place that’s all about chatting, dancing, meeting new people, beautiful sexy cartoons, shopping, sexy clothes, strip clubs, parties of every description, and of course lots of sex, all in a reasonably safe virtual way. The real secret that some people never figure out or that at least takes a long time to figure out, is that under all that, imvu is really about relationships. The variety of relationships is as vast and diverse as the two million people from over 80 countries.

Virtual relationships here can also be amazingly powerful and develop much faster here in this crazy world than in real life, without all of the distractions and nuisances of real life. Unfortunately I couldn’t find any frank real world advice about IMVU or virtual relationships. So after talking about that long enough I decided it was time to try to put something helpful for the IMVU community together. I don’t work for IMVU or even know anyone that does. This is just one crazy MILF’s random collection of thoughts and experiences in here. I try to keep most of the more adult things in a Private Section with passwords, but many of the images are pretty sexy and geared toward an adult audience.

I hope you enjoy it and I’d love to hear your comments or feedback. IMVU User Name: Kaitlyn (send a message before Adding me as a Friend)

December 6, 2011 | Categories: About Me | Tags: imvu, relationships | 3 Comments »

Making the most Amazing Friends

Just like the way a blind persons other senses become even more sensitive to make up for it, in IMVU you can’t see the physical and there is no little things to get in the way, so you get better at sensing the non physical. I call this IMVU vision. It’s almost impossible for someone who hasn’t been here for a while and experienced it to understand I know.

You can’t see with your eyes so you have to learn to feel with your heart. I think that’s why we sometimes feel such a powerful deep connection and I even say this place proves there is a soul. These pretty pixels and words can get pretty powerful, to the point that I feel closer to friends in here than I do in real life.

I say than “friends” in real life because I kind if feel like the friendships are more real in a sense than the love, in here. Don’t get me wrong I do love the love too, which sounds funny to say. But it’s loving friends in here that is my favorite part. I’d say the best thing I’ve learned in here is to love with all my heart. And I honestly couldn’t put just one person’s pictures up for this one so I picked a couple (not all!) of the people who I feel so strongly connected right into my heart. You’ll find your own people and understand when it happens to you.

February 1, 2012 | Categories: Virtual Relationships | Tags: connections, friends, imvu girls, imvu vision, love, relationships | Leave A Comment »

A sexy beach room

You sigh as you sink down into a comfortable chair, exhausted, smelling like sun tan lotion and afraid to look at how sand you have in your shoes. Your hair is a mess and your cheeks from laughing so hard and you think back on the day thinking that this was just another special once in a lifetime romance. Smiling warmly to yourself, you wonder how many that has been so far this week. And heck it’s only Wednesday.

That’s the craziness of IMVU. You can walk into this and have the time of your life almost at any time, meeting such amazing and exotic people and places and doing almost anything. You can’t help but remember feeding the birds and swimming the dolphin with was cool. Maybe you’ll get up the courage to try the sharks next time. It wasn’t the amount of rides, but the combination of the awesome sunset and the relaxing pillows and dancing in front of the fire that made it so warm and so much fun. I don’t care what type of room you have, but you almost can’t help but feel close and special with anyone you have this much fun and laughter with.

Copy this url into your browser: imvu://room/sweethotdream/The+Warm+BEACH
Explore this room, The Warm BEACH by sweethotdream with a friend! And enjoy a few pictures of my time there last night…

February 1, 2012 | Categories: Rooms | Tags: rooms, beach, romantic rooms | Leave A Comment »

Who is IMVU good for?

I just started making a list of who IMVU is good for. I thought there would probably only be a handful of people when I started this list but it just kept growing. This is another one of those posts that I think visitors will have a lot of good things to add, because the list seems to keep growing the longer I think about it and talk to people.

Single mothers with children or anyone with no social life.
Anyone that feels younger at heart.
Shy or inexperienced guys looking to learn and gain some confidence
People with any type of Handicap, that want to feel and interact normally with friends
Anyone physically restricted whether for legal reasons health reasons or geographical reasons
Anyone that travels a lot and wants to be able to see their friends where ever they are
Physically or emotionally abused people who want a place to have fun in a safe way
Anyone looking to experiment either sexually or in almost any interpersonal direction
Anyone that wants to change something about themselves
People with unusual fetishes and tastes
Perverts, Sex addicts and ??
Lesbians or anyone interested or experimenting in that area
People into vampires, demons, furry colorful animals or almost anything you can imagine
Anyone who just went through a devastating breakup
Guys who want to be girls (or vice versa) and pathological liars
Married people who just want more intimacy and to feel sexy in a safe way
Anyone bored or who can’t sleep at nights or needs an escape
Shop-a-holics
Anyone interested in clothing or computer design
People looking to meet someone in another country
People looking for a relationship with any of the above
Anyone looking to waste a lot of time. :-)
IMVU is good for Dreamers!
??? What else can you think of…

Almost as important as who it’s for is who it’s not for. It’s not for children except possibly without very close supervision. The faint of heart also have to be careful with it because it can be a little crazy, and no matter why you come here it will effect you in ways you probably aren’t expecting.

IMVU is good for and made up of ALL kinds of people, the most diverse population you’ve ever seen, and it can blow your mind if you’re not careful.

January 31, 2012 | Categories: IMVU Tips | Tags: benefits, diverse, imvu, purpose | Leave A Comment »

Grand Prize Winner Fantasy

This is a fun fantasy scenario for almost any type of bondage, experimentation or prisoner fun that can go in a wide variety of directions.

I never win anything so I was very surprised to get a call that I had actually won something. Not just anything but the grand prize in one of those big giveaways for one of those dating sites you see on TV. I had just broken up and wanted to get back into the dating scene, but hadn’t had much success with it yet. They said I had won a free trip to a beautiful exotic island resort in the Pacific. Usually these type of things allow you to bring someone I thought but this one specifically said it was just for one person and wasn’t transferable. It did seem a little odd that it was just for one person, but it was from a dating site so I figured it did make some sense. I didn’t really have anyone to bring though so I didn’t care and they made it sound really beautiful.

It wasn’t until I got there that things started to get a little strange. It was a private island and I had to take a boat to get there. That is okay but I expected a larger boat. This looked like a little more than an outboard motor fishing boat. There several boxes of supplies on most of the seats and only one empty directly in front of the operator. The driver smiled a lot but seemed more than a little creepy and I had the feeling he was watching me the whole time.

We bounced along the waves for at least two hours and finally pulled up to a small empty dock. He pointed to the buildings up beyond the beach and as he helped me with my bags I looked around wondering why there weren’t any other guests on the beach. He told me to relax in a large sitting room that was open to the beach and that the owner would come to greet me in a little while. He offered me a drink which I gladly accepted. It had been a long trip and I sank down into a large lounge chair and must have fallen asleep. When I woke up…

January 30, 2012 | Categories: Fantasies | Tags: fantasies, beach, bondage, bdsm, prisoner | Leave A Comment »

IMVU can be such a pain

I thought buying from IMVU directly instead of going through a reseller would be easier. They had a sale last week and I bought 300K for $120. I’ve never bought anything over the internet that made it as much hassle as this. You would think I was trying to buy $10,000 of computers and shipping them to a mail box address in another country, the way they treat you. They can be such Natzi’s in their attitude, and they honestly act like they don’t care about what their members think about them at all. Like they are God and you are guilty until proven innocent, even when you’re trying to PAY THEM.

Sorry to vent a little… On the other hand I have paid for credits from a reseller (Sphinx Credits) and they never provided them and IMVU flatly refused to even get involved. Sphinx Credits is criminals and are hurting IMVU and there’s a reason why they don’t have a phone number or email address on their website! Buying credits in IMVU can be such a royal pain.

January 30, 2012 | Categories: Uncategorized | Tags: credits, imvu corporation, imvu staff | 1 Comment »

IMVU Porn or a Romantic Encounter?

The difference between porn and a thrilling romantic adventure isn’t whether or not you have sex or not. It’s whether there’s a story or plot. I find that a lot of guys when asked what their favorite fantasy or RP scenario is, they just think sex, anything with you babe or two girls at once. Most guys don’t understand or appreciate that girls (not guys pretending to be girls) need more build up, that they don’t usually just want to jump into sex. They also don’t realize how much more sexy it is to really build up and put yourself into a whole scene, not just a pose.

Even if they’re only ultimately only looking for interactive porn they have to realize that adding some build up and plot to it doesn’t make it less sexy and it makes it much more sexy and harder for a girl to resist. So guys, even if all you care about is the sex, learn to paint a compelling and vivid scene with some romance and excitement and the sex will be much better.

And if you don’t quite see how to do that, look through some of the imvu fantasy scenarios here to get ideas. Have fun and send me a note to let me know how it worked for you.

January 28, 2012 | Categories: Fantasies | Tags: adventure, fantasies, imvu porn, romance | Leave A Comment »

Alien RP Fantasy

The alien scenario can be a bit extreme and there’s no doubt that I would have certainly freaked out if someone suggested this in the beginning. Heck I was freaked out by almost everything at first. I guess you could say I’ve grown though because I definitely enjoy extremes in here now, especially if they can be role played well. Aliens aren’t for everyone, for sure. But it can be much more intimate and exciting than you would ever expect if you role play it right.

It was just so sudden, waking up in a strange place, feeling sick from hyper sleep and then to be stuck here. At first we were just herded like cattle and thrown into a cage. There were several other girls in the beginning and one of them told me a little bit about this place. You can hear the screams sometimes and I huddled in the corner trying not to look.

Someone said that their females are all in fertile so they are using us instead. At first they just seemed to be testing things on me. They would strap me down and do several medical tests but then the changes started. My breasts have been swelling and it’s hard to think sometimes but I am always horny and aroused.

I don’t know how long I’ve been here now but whatever they did to me, it seems to turn me into some kind of sexual animal. Even if I’m not alone I feel like I spend half the time playing with myself and I can’t seem to stop or get enough. I hope they either get some new girls or let me out soon or I swear I’ll go crazy. I’ve seen some of the aliens and they are fearsome, but the way I feel now even one of them would be a relief.

Here’s another example with more of the Pedator version.

January 26, 2012 | Categories: Fantasies | Leave A Comment »

What is IMVU?

IMVU is hard to describe because it’s so diverse. It’s like trying to describe the internet to someone that doesn’t understand computers. And the amazing diversity means that it’s a lot of different things to different people. So unlike most of the other things which I write about and and let people respond a little bit to, I think this ultimately requires the input of a variety of people to be even partially complete.

I will start it off with a few things but it’s intentionally not thorough so there’s room for more contributions. I’m going to give this post a special link in the right column so it can be added to or accessed any time. You don’t even have to give a name or email address to respond. Just share a thought or two about what IMVU is to you. Anything that seems at all related will be accepted.

IMVU is:

…a virtual world that lets you be anything you want to be.(Kait)
…like High School except with no rules or teachers. (Kait)
…a safe way to meet people and be sexy. (Kait)
…all about relationships. (Kait)
…the internet that your mother warned you about. (Kait)
…more than an addicting game, but less than real life. (Kait)
…shopping heaven, with low prices and unlimited closet space. (Morgan)
…a great place to hang out and be with friends I’m closer to than real life. (Morgan)
…virtual reality, kind of the predecessor to the holodeck. (Quid)
…a way to live and star in your own romantic comedy. (Quid)
…what you make of it. (Quid)
…limited only by your imagination. (Quid)
…unfortunately half full of people who lack imagination, or common decency and are only here for sex. But the girls aren’t that bad. (Quid & Kait)
…gives you back what you put into it and then some. (Quid)
…addicting. (Kait)
…only limited by your imagination, (or other people’s imagination.) (Kait)
…whatever you want it to be. (Kait)

January 25, 2012 | Categories: IMVU Basics | Tags: basics, imvu | 2 Comments »

Don’t quit just make a fresh start.

We’ve all made mistakes and felt like leaving once in a while. Even if it wasn’t your mistake, it could just be the people you were around. The biggest factor in how much fun you have here is definitely the people around you.

The good news is that you can change the people around you much more easily here than in anything else. I have to tell you it feels very painful walking away from people. It’s hard but once you do it you’ll be surprised how quickly you can bounce back too.

Unfriend them and remove the rooms from your favorites and walk away. You can always add a few of back later on, but you have to walk away to heal. In some cases you may have to block one or two people and maybe even change your name. Both of these things are very easy to do though.

Then go to the gym and workout to clear hour head. Get a good nights sleep and you’ll be surprised how good you feel the next day and how easy it is to make some new friends. Everyone deserves a second or third chance and we all make mistakes and have to move on sometimes.

January 24, 2012 | Categories: drama | Tags: drama, new friends, quitting, starting over, unfriend | 2 Comments »

Life Happens

We miss you and Love and support you

We’ve all been through times of change and disruption in in our lives when things just got crazy (in our real life) and our virtual life suffered. I think this falls into the category of “Life Happens.”. This is exaggerated by the way time passes in here and a month can seem like almost a year in here.

So it may seem like a long time in here but also realize that it’s during these challenges that true friends prove themselves and true love shines. So when when you see someone going through these tough situations embrace and support them and you will have a bond that nothing can break.

I wrote this for and in response to the post missing Kim who moved across the country and started a new job. Let’s see are there any other things we can change at one time?!! But it honestly hits a little close to home with my Holly too who is obviously going through things too. So I say this with a lot of tears in both directions, saying to everyone as much as to myself, to hang in there and know that love will overcome.

January 23, 2012 | Categories: Virtual Relationships | Tags: change, drama, family | Leave A Comment »

Fantasy with the Boss’ hot daughter

This was a contribution by a new good friend, Quidlyn. The point isn’t that you have to use one of these fantasies, although you certainly can, but you can also make up something to fit whatever the situation is too. There are no rules, just have fun and realize how much a good story helps to make it even more fun.

The starlight twinkled on the river brightly as I shivered, pulling my silk wrap around my bare shoulders, the revealing cocktail dress hardly any protection from the night’s chill. You arrived behind me just in time with your warm strong body, draping your tuxedo jacket chivalrously over slender shoulders.

Just 10 minutes earlier, we were strangers at my father’s tedious gala soiree. You were one of his many business partners, but unlike the others, you did not hide your appreciation of my body, not cowed by the threat of my father’s wrath. Your confident gaze found mine, and we shared a moment. When a waiter found me later, handing me your note saying you will meet you outside by the river, but to leave separately to avoid suspicion, I checked my makeup in the mirror and slipped outside without hesitation.

Now standing on the docks, I feel your warm breath on my neck, I turn my gaze to yours, seeing the moon reflected in your eyes, my lips part ever so slightly, as a shiver courses thru my body…

January 23, 2012 | Categories: Fantasies | Tags: boss, daughter, fantasy, fantasy dates | 3 Comments »

57 Ways to show someone you love them in IMVU

This is a post I want other people to help add to. Leave a comment here or send me a message in IMVU (my screen name in IMVU is Kaitlyn if you don’t know me.) I will edit the list and add your suggestions.

Notes, especially ones with good letters or a mushy saying or story
Gifts (must have romantic special notes)
More notes, poems, compliments, and heart felt love
Telling them you love them in front of other people and mutual friends
Putting a picture of you both on your profile
Introducing them to your friends (as your GF or VBF or something sappy)
Going out of your way to spend time together
Be interested in their activities and the things they like
Make (develop) a picture of them or both of you for the wall in your room
Go shopping and get them things that show you know and care about them
Buy a shirt or necklace with their name on it or that says I love you and wear it with them.
Get a heart effect for after you have sex with them.
Invite them to fun different rooms, not just your default room.
Make them laugh.
Share sad times and be there for them when they need it.
Do real life things like eating a meal or watching a movie with them.
Pay attention to their fav songs and fav type of music and make a mix with their name.
If they are a developer send several people one of their newest items and ask them to leave you a good review. This makes the developer love you (you probably have to tell them though) and it also impresses the people you give the items too.
Write a prayer for them.
Take lots of pictures of them and make a photo album of just you and them.
Get a head sign that says I LOVE YOU and just put it on when they’re around.
Randomly just say you sneak over and kiss, caress, tease or spank them (in other words, little comments)
Get excited when they enter a room.
Send flowers or one gift every morning.
Have a custom voice box made with their name so you can call them by name or say I Love You Holly.
Go over board for birthday or any special event for them
Listen, really listen to them
Go to whatever room they are in.
But give them space
Dress a like (sometimes)
Adjust your look to things they like
Always be supportive and put their needs first
If someone gives you a gift let them see you using it.
Treat something they gave you as extra special and keep it with you.
Spend time with them even when you’re busy.
Share your fantasies
Figure out their fantasies and make them happen
Find their hot buttons and push them often
Plan dates together
Find fun rooms to share and explore with them
Accept them for who they are
We all have sore spots and weaknesses, understand and be careful of theirs
Accept their boundaries but know when to push them a little too.
Care about their needs more than your own
Never ever be jealous
Defend them
Edify them and put them on a pedastle
Be open and sharing
Be vulnerable
Cuddle often.
Include their fav positions, or dances in any room you make.
Find excuses to touch them.
Get a tattoo with their name on it or just that says taken.
Teach them how to do something
Take a virtual class about something you are both interested in.
If they have a job in here whether it’s as a dancer or developer, help them do it or do it with them.
Play a virtual game with them